The Journal of Dr. Richard L. Sleight
January 2018
 
 
          
 

It's (He's) a Boy!

That's the news I heard on Monday morning, January 29th.  Nathanael called me at work.  He had already shared the joyful news with the two pending grandmothers.  The day before, we had celebrated the baptism of Charis Lorien Disher and the birthdays of Nathanael and myself.  Even though I was warned that the news could come, it caught me completely by surprise.

Nathanael's school had a teacher work-day, so the paraeducators had the day off.  It just happened to coincide with their trip to their O.B. and Cynthia's scheduled ultrasound.  If their June baby was discovered to be a boy, that would be conclusive.  If the images were inconclusive, it might still be a boy. 

I'll admit that hearing the news lifted my spirits!  The sudden joy I felt was downright embarrassing, since the same announcement about Charis had raised a feeling of contentment and a more settled happiness. 

 


Our Granddaughter is Our Sister: Charis is Baptized

Great-grandma Ginger joined both sets of grandparents and Aunt Cynthia and Uncle Nate at the baptism.  Two baby girls were ushered into the Body of Christ at the UPC 8:30 AM service on January 28, 2018.  And, while she fidgeted just a bit during the actual baptism, she did not disturb the congregation as she spent the hour in the front row.  Here was her baptism verse.

3 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. 4 I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus, 5 for in every way you have been enriched in him, in speech and knowledge of every kind.

1 Corinthians 1:3-5 New Revised Standard Version

 

 

Charis at One (month)

Have we reached that place in life where grandchildren will now dominate the stories in my journal?  It would not surprise me.  No doubt my photogenic model Charis will become more cooperative in the years to come.  And it would not surprise me if I broke down and acquired a newer Nikon, capable of capturing better images in natural light.  The photo shoot below showed that the better shots were those in natural light instead of flash. The Nikon D300, their flagship DX camera at the time, came out over ten years ago, in August 2007.  [ For my birthday, I did just order myself a 35mm f/1.8 G AF-S DX Nikkor lens.  I got it used from Adorama for $119 plus shipping.  It's $179 new.  At 400 ISO it will take crisp lower light photos of my littlest model Charis — and her younger cousin! ]  I am reminded what the late Dr. J. Vernon McGee said about New Years resolutions and crying babies in church, "They both need to be carried out!"  But so far, Charis has been (mostly) a silent witness in our second-to-last pew in the UPC balcony.

       
       

Jean has an Experience

Jean's month away in the cold of Shakespeare & Company in Lenox, MA, with a homeward stop in Chicago, came to an end on the 31st.

She came home bubbling like a tweenager coming home from a week at summer camp.  Except her trip began in late December and her Shakespeare Intensive was four weeks long.  

 She had voice and movement classes every day, plus clown, stage combat, sound and movement (different from either voice class or movement class), lectures, and more.  It was one of those life-impacting experiences that will one day bear unforeseen fruit.

As for her auditions in Chicago, they went well enough, but also opened her eyes to the fact that perhaps graduate school is not the route for her.  She's already on a rung of the actors career ladder.  

A Passport Photo Good for Five Years!

I was happy to lend my photo skills to prepare a passport photo for Charis.  COSTCO will print a 4"x6", not the needed 2"x2" passport size image.  So you get 6 shots for the price of one.  Annie sent me three shots to process, and ordered the passport in Kirkland.

This summer, Thomas, Annie, and Charis will be off to visit New Zealand to visit friends.  Off to the land of Hobbits!

 

 

I'm not good at calling, especially to a distant time zone.  But I'm happy to write or email.  Jean did not take her laptop on her trip, but postcards featuring her super heroine Wonder Woman were appreciated.    I sent three.

 

Bits and Pieces 


♦  
Assistant Professor of Mathematics Russ Killingsworth passed away on the 17th.  Russ had suffered with chronic liver disease for many years, which took a turn for the worse over the Christmas break.
 Navy veteran, Scoutmaster, husband and father, he joined the SPU faculty in 1996.  He was awarded the Silver Beaver by the local Boy Scout Council for years of outstanding service as a Scoutmaster.  The news shocked us all.  I interacted with Russ as he taught every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 11:00 AM in "my" computer classroom (McKenna 113).  Half of his teaching load was BUS/MAT 2700 Statistics for Business and Economics, the same course I have taught off and on since 2000.

♦   Last month, another of my mentors, Bob Swenson, passed away.  Back in August 2013, I wrote about his receiving the Bronze Star for his heroic service in World War II.  Until he slowed down in the past hew years, he was perhaps the most faithful member of the Saturday Morning Men's Bible Study that I facilitated.  He brought the continental breakfast every Saturday.  Many of us attended his memorial service in the choir room at Bellevue Presbyterian.  He was the model of a selfless servant and faithful Christian.  More than anyone, he was responsible for me serving on Bellevue Presbyterian committees in the 1990s, and my chairing their annual Men's retreat in 1997.

♦   In Autumn quarter 2008, I launched a periodic online newsletter called the SBE Undergraduate eNews.  It was web-based and was published about every four weeks.  In Autumn 2015, that newsletter became a weekly and took up over 10% of my work week to publish.  On February 7th, I'll turn over this publication to Jake Carlson, our new Associate Director of Undergraduate Programs.  I'm only reluctant to make this change because Jake is so new and unproven in his writing and online skills, and his limited knowledge of SBGE and SPU.  

♦   On the 29th, I had my monthly meeting with my dean.  It stretched to 90 minutes, although a week earlier I'd wondered what we'd have to talk about.  Not surprisingly, the topic of retirement came up.  The university is facing needed cutbacks, and some savings may come through that route.  While I do teach, my staff contract only guarantees me annual employment.  This talk has moved this issue forward in my thinking.  But I have also been considering it more over the past year.  On the 31st, I shared the idea that retirements could be phased, with employees working fewer hours as they approach eventual retirement.

Part of me hopes to work until age 69.  Yet another part might prefer a graceful exit from the academy at 65.  I have now worked professionally over 40 years at my two schools, and June 2019 would mark my 30th year at SPU.

♦   On the evening of the day I learned I would have a grandson, I watched the movie Arrival starring Amy Adams and Jeremy Renner.  I was moved.  Jean and Nancy watched it on the 31st.

♦   On the 30th, I finally had a tooth extracted that could have been removed last summer.  I waited until my winter quarter lectures had ended.  I'd also wanted to do it after the holidays.  It will, no doubt, be months before my second implant will be complete.  The first implant is directly opposite the pictured void. 

 My Quote from January

 

Sometimes I wish we never built this palace
But real love is never a waste of time

 

— from Palace by Sam Smith

 

 

 

 

 

  

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