BANNER - Bellevue 2020
The Journal of Dr. Richard L. Sleight
February 2020

   

Joel Sitte & Jean Sleight
are Wed, Sunday,
February 16, 2020

Rick Sitte, Joel's father, remarked that he'd never been to a wedding where the bride and groom grinned at each other through the whole ceremony. 

The wedding of Mr. and Mrs. Joel Sitte went nearly flawlessly.  (Alas, someone did forget the guest book.)

My part was simple enough. Prepare and print the program, help with the table decorations, pick up three cakes from COSTCO in Covington, manage the two video cameras, escort the bride to the alter, and dance the father-daughter dance to Van Morrison's Brown Eyed Girl.

I also prepared the PowerPoint of the couple which ran on two large monitors.  (I got myself a 43" LG TV out of the process for my basement office!)  The link to it is in January's Bits and Pieces.  

 

Four of these photos are mine, the black and white "dip" is by Joel's older sister Amanda, who along with his younger sister Abby (Abigail) were "Groom's ladies," and the remainder were by cousin Bob Hollis. 

I discovered I have both size 38S and 40S tuxedo jackets but would need a 44S to be able to button it closed.

Joel and Jean selected Rev. Doug Ranney to officiate the wedding.  They have been in a couples group led by the Ranney's for much of the past year.  He did an excellent and efficient  job of the ceremony.

The venue at Lake Wilderness Lodge in Maple Valley was beautiful, and especially delighted the out of town visitors from Massachusetts. The promised rain held off the entire day and the sun even managed to peek through the clouds at the very climax of the ceremony.

Jean recruited Annie to serve as Master of Ceremonies, leaving me to move from group to group, taking more photos during the reception, and welcoming the many special guests.

Aunt Laurie said that when five-year-old Zack looked up to see Jean slowly descend the circular stairway, he whispered to her, "It's a Princess!"

 
    
 
   
      
      
 

The Reception and Etc.

The caterer arrived on time but the time between the ceremony and their arrival seemed long.  It all worked out, especially when members of the Sitte clan declared the clam chowder the best they'd had, which must be high praise, coming as it was from Massachusetts natives.  There were so many friends and family to acknowledge.  Julie Adams and Alicia Pastrick took pictures of as many guests as their cameras would allow before their batteries died.  And, since a picture is worth a thousand words, these photos write a tome about the happy reception.

Unlike Annie's wedding, when Nancy was up for three days straight, this time she was only up for two days straight.  It's best to just stay out of her way.

The musical ensemble led by Susan, with cousin Lance Ellis on French Horn was wonderful.  See the program.  Program

   
        
        
         
        
           
      
   

East and West Coast Families Meet at the River Rock Grill

On Thursday the 13th, families and friends of Jean and Joel, especially those in the wedding program, met at the River Rock Grill in Maple Valley and then proceeded to the Lake Wilderness Lodge

I sat with Rick Sitte and many from the Massachusetts contingent, and discovered much of what I have in common with Joel's dad. 

We explored the Lake Wilderness Lodge, imagining what would go where on the 16th.  I tested video lights but decided against them because of the wall of windows which would let in plenty of light.

In talking with Rick Sitte, we found common ground on faith and firearms, computers and Scouting.

 

 

   

 
 
 


Before the Wedding Came the Showers

Jean and Joel shared their wedding shower as a February birthday party for Randy and me. 
I picked out my own cake at COSTCO.  Turning 65 is an afterthought to the excitement of the mid-February wedding.  This shower included just family and family friends.  Earlier, Jean had
a lingerie wedding shower, also at Susan's, the details of which remain a mystery.

There were shower games and building anticipation for the wedding, but still, I spent most of the early evening on the 1st with the grandchildren.  Nathanael's first haircut of Jonathan was a big surprise, but it could not disguise his cuteness.

David and Heidi James, Steve and Sheri White (both of whom will retire in June), Julie Adams, Randy, Don and Judy, Susan, and Norwegian friend Helga Brink, joined all our children and grandchildren.

       
   
 
 

Back Home Again

Much of my free time continues to be claimed by Charis, freeing Thomas or Annie or both from childcare duties. 

 I marvel that my attitude toward my grandchildren seems so different from that of my own grandfather
or father. 

Annie and Nancy made an exceptional effort to clean and decorate the Sitte apartment while they were away on their honeymoon to Vancouver, Victoria, and points north on Vancouver Island. 

Joel and Jean reported their week in Canada as a wonderful first week of marriage.

      
 

Annie at 33

Annie and Nancy went to a play on her birthday on the 28th, so we had her party on the 29th.

When Nancy and I drove down Susan's driveway, the last to arrive, we were greeted by four deer enjoying Susan's St. John's Wort.

Susan, Randy, Julie Adams, the Auburn Sleight's, the Disher's, the Sitte's, and the Pastrick's were all there.

With regard to the Pastrick family, I came to the realization this month that Nancy and I have become surrogate grandparents to Rowan (five days younger than Charis), and Corvin (born last September).  Certainly, we play that role when our now "extended" family gathers.  The Pastrick parents are comfortable thinking of us as de facto grandparents to their kids.

Richard and Alicia Pastrick are having their new home built in Lake Stevens, not far from Randy's duplex.  Their address will be 3306 104th Avenue NE, Lake Stevens, WA 98258.

Charis' word for "grandpa" is "Ba."  She hasn't mastered the "p" sound yet.  This helps to explain why she struggles to toot her harmonica, despite my regular demonstrations.

Nathanael paid his March and April morgage because he expects them to be especially busy with the arrival of son #2 in early April.

 
         
 

Bits and Pieces

Annie took Nancy to see Steel Magnolias at Taproot Theatre and Nancy delighted in its humor.  It was a Friday night, game night for Thomas, so I spent five fun-filled hour with Charis.  We added a new game, rolling toy cars down her plastic slide and watching them race down Susan's hallway.  Charis demonstrated that she could count, "one, two, three, four."  But it was more like, "oon, tu, thr, fo."  (Just a few days later, Charis showed she could count from one to ten if the words kept to single syllables.  Nine was nine, except when seven was also nine!) 

I was very happy with my new lectures for BUS 1700.  Through week six of winter quarter, all my students who attempted the exam had passed it.  Alas, as is typically the case, the procrastinators in week seven produced 18 students who had failed to do the homework and who will be retaking the exam during weeks eight through ten.

After many years, I've backed up the over 70,000 files in over 500 folders at Bellevue1.net and have given up that web domain featuring my Bellevue Christian and SPU sports photos.  It was a great hobby, but it was only that, and it was time to move on and stop paying the web hosting fees.  Retired coach Larry Royce wrote from Spokane this month:

Grandpa Dick,

Thanks for taking the time to respond. Deeply appreciate this and all the years you volunteered to the program. Looking back over your website brought back so many great memories. Called Ed a few days ago and we were commiserating about the "Golden Years". It was a heck of a ride and I'm sure glad that you were a part of it. Thanks for the update on your family. Please give my best to all.
Blessings,
Larry


On the 29th, Nancy took me to the Republican precinct caucus meeting up at Chinook Middle School.  The picture shows what a ghost town it was, with most Eastside precincts completely unrepresented.  Nancy is automatically a delegate to the 48th District Legislative Caucus because she is the PCO (precinct committee officer) for BEL 48-0201.  As the only other resident of BEL 48-0201 in attendance, I was elected as the first delegate from our precinct.  I'm not looking to make this a habit.

My Quote from February

Dems Who Ran Sham Impeachment Hearings Shocked
As Republicans Run Sham Impeachment Trial


Coronavirus Polling Higher Than All Presidential Candidates

Hick Farmers Retaliate Against Coastal Elites By Withholding Ingredients Needed To Make Avocado Toast

3-Year-Old Terror Miraculously Transforms Into Angelic Cherub
As Soon As She Falls Asleep


CNN Unveils New Format Where Hosts Just Watch Fox News
And Yell At It


Massive Plank Appears In Adam Schiff's Eye As He Accuses
Trump Of Being A Liar


Bob's Hemorrhoid Prayer Request Probably Should Have
Remained Unspoken


After Senseless Murder Of Goliath, Philistines Call For Ban On
Fully Automatic, High-Capacity Slings


George Lucas Releases Special Edition Of The Bible
Where Malchus Attacks Peter First


Warren Rejects Peace Pipe Offered By Sanders

Highly Anticipated Groot Bible Commentary Hits Shelves

Select headlines from The Babylon Bee

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